{"id":9968,"date":"2012-03-07T15:23:28","date_gmt":"2012-03-07T14:23:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/conversation-with-l-about-life\/"},"modified":"2012-03-07T15:23:28","modified_gmt":"2012-03-07T14:23:28","slug":"conversation-with-l-about-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/conversation-with-l-about-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Conversation with L. about life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You have to decide exactly which side you are on: do you serve the good forces or the dark forces.<\/p>\n<p>Being ill doesn&#8217;t just mean that you are doing something wrong. It takes a lot of strength to go your own way, you can&#8217;t just &#8220;go with the universe&#8221;, as the esoteric feel-good soft industry so flowerily and insubstantially puts it. It is often a struggle and is reflected in the body and soul, burning itself into the <em>self.<\/em>   <\/p>\n<p>It is always a difficult balancing act to accept limits, i.e. personal weaknesses, as a personal, natural condition or to want to change them in the sense of improvement. There is often an underlying obsession with perfection and optimization, which is unhealthy for the overall personal system! <\/p>\n<p>Fear is the basis for blocking one&#8217;s own autonomous, self-determined development.<\/p>\n<p>We may be born completely free. Everything is designed for development, growth and (learning) information (neuroplasticity, disposition, natural growth potential). The subsequent socialization process, i.e. rebuilding the social conditioning, removing the layers of alienation from one&#8217;s own core, is a painful and incredibly intensive, time-consuming life process.<strong>(From &#8220;entanglement&#8221; to &#8220;development&#8221;)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You have to decide exactly which side you are on: do you serve the good forces or the dark forces. Being ill doesn&#8217;t just mean that you are doing something [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[60],"tags":[425],"class_list":["post-9968","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-experience","tag-biography"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9968","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9968"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9968\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9968"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9968"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dev.harald-bluechel.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9968"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}